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Embracing Neutrality: The Path to Authentic Self and Liberation

December 21, 2023 Angela Blaha Season 1 Episode 40
The Impactful Influencers Podcast 🚀✨
Embracing Neutrality: The Path to Authentic Self and Liberation
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What if the key to self-discovery and ascension lies in the simple act of surrendering to neutrality? Promising a fascinating journey into the complex realm of the ego, we, your hosts Angela Blahann and Renee Keane, invite you to challenge what you think you know about identity and validation. We dive deep into the power of neutrality, unraveling its potential to free us from the ego's relentless need for external validation and comparison, ultimately leading to a liberating sense of authenticity. Hear our personal stories, trials, and triumphs as we dissect the often disregarded concept of neutrality and its transformative effect on the self.

Shedding the false layers of identity is more than just a cathartic experience; it's a call to action. We explore the profound connection between shock, awe, and our inherent power and authenticity. By embracing neutrality, we unlock the path to truly seeing and embodying our authentic selves. Join us as we share insights and experiences on how to reach this empowering state of neutrality - through observation, avoiding emotional charge, and most importantly, surrender. We promise, you'll finish this episode with a fresh perspective on yourself and the world around you. Prepare to be enlightened.


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Speaker 1:

Hey everyone, welcome again to the Blueprint podcast. I'm so excited and glad that you're here today because we're talking about some very exciting things. So I'm your host, angela Blahann. This is my friend, renee Keane. Thank you, renee, again for joining me today. How are you?

Speaker 2:

I am wonderful, and it's a great day to be here, isn't it?

Speaker 1:

Yes, it is, yeah, All right. So I'd love for us to dive deep into the transformative power of surrendering to neutrality. Now, neutrality is not something in the psychological world or the spiritual world or any other world really that gets a lot of attention because we don't really. What does it mean to be neutral? It means to have balance, I feel. I feel like it means to have balance or be in harmony with something. It's not necessarily based in the ego, with judgment and identity crisis, kinds of things, but it also doesn't flip to the other side of extreme bliss and that kind of thing. You're just staying in a neutral position where you can see a 360 viewpoint, versus having an opinion or seeing a side, or something like that. So if we're going to jump into the world of neutrality, we have to look at the ego and the soul or the energy of who we are, which are two different things. Right, most of the time they're two different things. So the ego let's take that, for example, that ever-present force that's constantly shaping our identity and it seeks meaning it wants to have, it wants to understand itself more fully. It often drives us to define ourselves by external factors, meaning we're always looking outside of ourselves. We're in competition, always, right, like we're always looking for approval from something else. But what if there's a path to instant access to ascension by literally surrendering to neutrality, like it? Can you feel the vibration of that one? Yes, right, okay. So let's explore this concept. So I would love for us to discuss how embracing neutrality can lead us to our authentic selves. So, if it's actually a part of the ascension process is to surrender to a neutrally, a neutral energy within ourselves, how does that become authentic? Or how does authenticity lead us? I feel like it's the reverse. How does authenticity lead us to a more neutral state of being? Maybe. And the authentic self is, of course, the realm where energy exists without imprinting or programming that the ego imposes, right? So it's always the ego that's looking for the programming or the imprinting. How do I compare with someone else? Or what's the world doing? How can I keep up? Where's the trends? So let's start by unraveling the intracities of the ego. So it's constantly seeking validation, both inside and outside of ourselves. So this validation, like it, creates a virtual reality. It creates a sense of self based on societal expectations, personal ambitions, like what your wants, needs and desires are, and then a desire to be someone or something, but what if? Well, let's go back. What is your experience with the ego's identity? And you know how have you lived that out so far in your life?

Speaker 2:

Well, I think that's a great question. As they say, identifying for myself when I'm an ego and when I'm not was a huge process. A judgment for me always seems to follow ego, and that when I when I find myself falling into that category of well, that's just not the way to do it or that's just not right or that's you know, and I'm like, okay, you're judging a process that's that's not yours, it's someone else's, it's really none of my business, but it's my ego saying, well, yeah, but your way is the way it should be. Or you know, my ego says, you know, I know better somehow for someone else. And so that's the piece that I've been working through in, in understanding that I am authentic unto me. I need to kick my ego to the corner when I think I need to tell someone else the way they need to do it or the way they need to be. And that's kind of how I've gotten myself into what I would consider a space of neutrality, often A lack of judgment on someone else, kicking my ego out of it. My way isn't the only way. My thoughts aren't the only thoughts. Everyone has their own authentic self and what is actually theirs. I'm not kicking my ego out of the way, because I think it's the ego that's always trying to say, well, but pick me, pick me, I know better. Well, maybe, maybe, maybe not.

Speaker 1:

Right. Right, I would always try to measure up mentally because for me, my mental capabilities and my artistic capability, the creativity of me, is very powerful and that aspect of who I am and I tried really hard to fit in, which failed miserably. You know, to make a name for yourself to hit all the bullet points of what the hierarchy said to do. I was young, it was important, and that was ego. It was very ego driven and to me, when I followed that path was the mental constructs of competition became overwhelming. Like you know what I mean. Like like I have so many damn certificates on the wall and they never really made a difference in my life. You know, like I have certificates for everything, everything I've ever. You do, I had some stick and really have them and what are they? What are they? You know, it was just a measuring up against the rest of the world, literally. See, I can prove to myself, I can prove to you my certificate, but, honestly it, what do they mean in my life? Like they never really made a difference for me. People, my clients, they don't care how many certificates I have on the wall, all they care is what's in it for them. You know, which is human, our human construct as well, when we surrender to neutrality. When I figured out that man, I just have to become neutral here and I have to be able to see a 360 viewpoint, right. When I can see a 360 viewpoint and I'm not emotionally immersed in the competitive ego that identity forming, then you know, that's where my ability to create question that pulls people into some order, some other I don't even know some other mental state or some other dimension even. That's where. That's where my authentic self resides, right and so. So, becoming neutral, I feel, is, in 2024, going to be super important for us. Also, it's not about a denying our identity or I individualization, right. It's more about shedding the layers of the false identities, which I think again, is going to be what's going to be either struggle or it's going to be ease and flow in 2024, like releasing. We spent a lot of time in 23 saying you need to release from this right, self actualization is really the way. That's where we're playing, right into that right now right. So we're not using the false identities or not the authentic self, and you know, being able to shed those layers so that we can really move through the essential path. But neutrality is a game player.

Speaker 2:

And I want to just point out that neutrality is in a place to hide. No, neutrality isn't like, well, I won't pick this side and I won't pick that side, so I'll just stay in the middle. That's not neutrality. That's what sometimes we have thought of as neutrality. That's what we're talking about here today. No, no, because that's hiding. And we're not hiding. In our neutrality, we're actually moving into our authentic being by being neutral and allowing others to be who they are. So it's a fine line, but it's really, really important to understand. It's not a place to hide, right?

Speaker 1:

Maybe this is the key. So when we release the need to be somebody, which is a false identity, that whole concept of identifying, we make space for our authentic self to emerge. But the authentic self is hidden behind all of those false identities, those competitive roles that we're playing, and you have to become neutral in the space of competition in order for the authentic self to emerge. So what we're really talking about is releasing the ego's false identities so that the authentic self can come through. So how do we tap into this energy alignment in 2024? Let's do some forecasting. Well, I do know that 2024, energetically, when I'm looking into the energy of 24, it will require each one of us, no matter where we are on the Ascension Path, to have some sort of a transformative experience, a numinous experience. Now, a numinous experience is one that is in awe right, so profound that you cannot put words to it. Generally, the numinous experience I've had, I can't describe them fully.

Speaker 2:

No, I would agree totally.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, so this I know for sure will happen in 2024. We will have some type of a numinous transformative experience. How that's going to show up, I don't think that's been decided yet, but what's your forecasting about it?

Speaker 2:

My forecasting is like 2024 is going to be I'm going to use the word greatest. This is our greatest opportunity. We have so much in 2024 that's being basically energetically handed to us. We get to participate in the way that we choose. So you can be the wallflower if you choose. That's up to you. Or you can just jump in full bore and become the being that you are. It's like something beautiful, like all the hidden veils that people talk about and all the behind the scenes stuff. It's like it's all gone. Yes, you can create it again for yourself, but really and truly they are gone. This is our opportune time to shine, to shine as we choose to.

Speaker 1:

I agree with that. Yeah Well, I think that we're not going to get out of 2024 without knowing, or at least experiencing, your authentic self, and I think that that's probably going to have a little bit of shock for some people, and I don't mean it in a negative way. I think that sometimes our biggest shocks, our biggest shock and awe is knowing our power, our most authentic self, actualized self, because we do have a lot of power that we don't tap into and we don't utilize. So I think that that's what I see moving into 2024 is this there will be shocking awe for some people. How powerful, how magical if that's the word you want to use. Not really magical, it's more numinous because it's profound. Magic is playful. Numinous is like the thing, it's, like the profoundness of it.

Speaker 2:

And it's kind of like it's the day you look in the mirror and say there she is or there he is. It's like you get to the point where you finally see that authentic being and you can actually. There she is. I've been looking for her for a very long time and there she is. Let's keep her there. And that's the numinous piece.

Speaker 1:

You know, yes, I completely agree. I do also feel like, in order to get that, the physical body transformation has to take place in 24 as well. I think we've been working up to this, but if we don't, then the DNA change in 27 that is coming is coming. I think that'll be a hard thing if we're not actually having the transformative experience with the physical body in 24. Or at least started. That makes sense, yeah, that makes sense to me. Well, you can't see the authentic self if you're not transforming the physical body, because that's what we think is the authentic self right, which is just a falsity of the ego.

Speaker 2:

And I know, with clients and stuff you probably I'm constantly dealing with the aches, the pains, the body stuff is what's really coming forward in, like I don't even know why my elbow hurts, but we are transforming and we need to definitely be in that. That physical aspect moves with us.

Speaker 1:

Yes, yeah, completely. So those are the two things that I see that are really going to be profound, and I think that maybe that's why this is the topic is to move into that space of neutrality for the profoundness to actually come through. Because without, if you're caught up in some sort of type of a identity with something or even purpose, you know, like if you're caught up in your own purpose and that's all you think about, or if you're caught up in an emotion, or if you're caught up in a thought or I don't know, a family programming of some sort, these belief systems, you know you're never going to be in a space of neutrality. Because those are the layers, right, those are the parts that we're trying to. You know, shed are these false layers of identity, which is all of those things, and in order for the authentic, numinous self to be experienced, you have to shed them. And they are all held in the body. I can tell you that because that's where our memory is, but that's a whole other subject.

Speaker 2:

Sarah, we're going that direction, not today.

Speaker 1:

No, that's a 24 hour conversation. That's a big one.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I agree.

Speaker 1:

So like a place of neutrality, though. How did you get to a space where you felt neutral about who you were and allowed that authentic self to be seen and heard?

Speaker 2:

Well, I would say, you are of great assistance.

Speaker 1:

Easiest thing that I teach people is to take your energy out of your body out into the atmosphere of the earth and then look down at yourself Energetically. Just look down at yourself and you can see a 360 viewpoint. You don't have to work at being a 360 viewpoint until you can actually embody that, but when you take yourself up and out, you can see it and all you're doing is observing from that space. There's no judgment, there's no complaints, there's no. You know, you're not aligning with anything, you're just experiencing, you're just observing. When you're an observer, you're in a space of neutrality.

Speaker 2:

That's the key piece that I would say. I became the observer in many, many situations and by becoming the observer, I could identify my authentic self, where I was in a relationship to whatever's going, whatever's happening outside here, and I was able to pull myself out, not being the judgment of what was happening, with whatever it is. You're in it with a group of friends and it's like oh wow, but I could observe impartially. I didn't have to say they were wrong, I didn't have to say they were right. When I am the observer, that's when I consider myself in neutrality, and that was key and you really helped me define being the observer, whether I took the 360 view or whether I just stepped back from the situation and it's just like okay, well, I think that's a perfect place for anyone to start really seeing their authentic self.

Speaker 1:

It's a conscious decision that you really have to make of being in a space of neutrality and being the observer. If you find that you're in, you think you're in a space of observer and you're making a judgment or you're identifying with something, you are not in a space of neutrality. That's your key, like if that's happening, you're emotionally getting charged or you're emotionally getting angered or something right. That is not a space of neutrality. Neutrality means, oh, I'm just observing what's happening here, but I'm not actually engaging in the energy of it. I mean, it's like a neutral space, observing.

Speaker 2:

It's almost I use this term a lot and it's like well, that's interesting because I'm observing it. Well, that's interesting, I never quite looked at it like that, or like that. Or like that I mean in the observorship mode, Right.

Speaker 1:

Right, not letting people set you off is a space of neutrality. Yes, right, not allowing their words or their emotions, or you know, you're not getting sucked into it. I think that that is impasse, and impasse meaning we understand the ebb and flow of energy, we don't necessarily get sucked into it. I think that that's going to be a really hard space for empathic people, because we're used to taking on energy, transforming it and then giving it back, which is not the right place. That should not be a standard for impasse. Observe state of space of neutrality and we don't necessarily judge it, you know, so that we can. When you're judging, you're totally an ego. Or if you're trying to find meaning for something, you're totally an ego, right, like that's the whole ego's purpose is to be able to identify with something.

Speaker 2:

So those are some clues to know when and when, not Even when you do find that you're in the observorship mode and you, when a judgment pops in or, like you said, you're triggered, just realign. Yes, just realign. It's not like, oh darn, I blew it, you know. It's like, yay, you caught that. You weren't quite where you thought you were. Now get there Exactly, it's an opportunity.

Speaker 1:

Exactly, just energetically, take yourself off and out. If you can't do it in the present moment In the space Yep, then take yourself up and out energetically, move your energy so that it becomes in its more neutral space.

Speaker 2:

Again, it's taking action. Yeah, you have to do the action step. You have to actually take that active role to move yourself.

Speaker 1:

Yes, Thank you for bringing that up. That's going to be another. That's the third big thing in 24 is the action, because we could not create a new earth, new mentality, without the action steps. I mean it just. That's just not how duality works. I don't exactly understand it. There has to be action.

Speaker 2:

Yes, great, and that is, that's a big one for me. I'm just gonna say I get all these ideas and I create these things, but then I don't pull the trigger on the action. Yeah, so that for me, 2024, that's a huge mom. I'm not gonna wait till New Year's Eve. I'm working on that currently. But it's just like when the thought comes in, when the my authentic self says this is an opportunity for you, it's not, oh, but I gotta do the dishes that are gonna make dinner or I gotta whatever excuse I wanna give myself. Action step. The rest will all be there when you're done. Take your action step first.

Speaker 1:

Yes, those excuses are literally self-sabotaging practices, habits, behaviors.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, absolutely.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, and we are. A mentor of mine says that 2024 is going to be the year of the light worker, and it could possibly be, but if we are not moving into these things that we're talking about today, light workers will not be the leaders of the world.

Speaker 2:

Exactly. Yeah, coin that statement, because that's as accurate as it gets. Yeah, yeah, yeah, for sure.

Speaker 1:

Well, thank you for joining us on this exploration of the ascension, through surrendering, into neutrality or to your most authentic higher self. Remember that the path to the authentic self begins with letting go of the illusions that were created by the ego that's for some, you know, that can be a real scary place, because we've been taught to identify for such a long time. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, if you enjoyed today's episode, don't forget to subscribe, leave us a review and share us with your friends. Until next time. Yes, may your journey towards authenticity be filled with self-discovery.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I love it.

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